(Don't use them all , unless if you want to be called "Insane"... :))
*What is your concept of marriage?
*Have you been married before?
*Are you married now?
*What are you expectations of marriage?
*What are your goals in life? (long and short term)
*Identify three things that you want to accomplish in the near future.
*Identify three things that you want to accomplish, long term.
*Why have you chosen me/other person as a potential spouse?
*What is the role of religion in your life now?
*Are you a spiritual person?
*What is your understanding of an Islamic marriage?
*What are you expecting of your spouse, religiously?
*What is your relationship between yourself and the Muslims community in your area?
*Are you volunteering in any Islamic activities?
*What can you offer your zawj (spouse), spiritually?
*What is the role of the husband?
*What is the role of the wife?
*Do you want to practice polygamy?
*What is your relationship with your family?
*What do you expect your relationship with the family of your spouse to be?
*What do you expect your spouses relationship with your family to be?
*Is there anyone in your family living with you now?
*Are you planning to have anyone in your family live with you in the future?
*If, for any reason, my relationship with your family turns sour, what should be done?
*Who are your friends? (Identify at least three.)
*How did you get to know them?
*Why are they your friends?
*What do you like most about them?
*What will your relationship with them after marriage be?
*Do you have friends of the opposite sex?
*What is the level of your relationship with them now?
*What will be the level of your relationship with them after marriage?
*What type of relationship do you want your spouse to have with your friends?
*What are the things that you do in your free time?
*Do you love to have guests in your home for entertainment?
*What are you expecting from your spouse when your friends come to the house?
*What is your opinion of speaking other languages in home that I do not understand? (with friends or family)
*Do you travel?
*How do you spend your vacations?
*How do you think your spouse should spend vacations?
*Do you read?
*What do you read?
*After marriage, do you think that you are one to express romantic feelings verbally?
*After marriage, do you think that you want to express affection in public?
*How do you express your admiration for someone that you know now?
*How do you express your feelings to someone who has done a favor for you?
*Do you like to write your feelings?
*If you wrong someone, how do you apologize?
*If someone has wronged you, how do you want (s)he to apologize to you?
*How much time passes before you can forgive someone?
*How do you make important and less important decisions in your life?
*Do you use foul language at home? In public? With family?
*Do your friends use foul language?
*Does your family use foul language?
*How do you express anger?
*How do you expect your spouse to express anger?
*What do you do when you are angry?
*When do you think it is appropriate to initiate mediation in marriage?
*When there is a dispute in your marriage, religious or otherwise, how *should the conflict get resolved?
*Define mental, verbal, emotional and physical abuse.
*What would you do if you felt that you had been abused?
*Who would you call for assistance if you were being abused?
*Do you suffer from any chronic disease or condition?
*Are you willing to take a physical exam by a physician before marriage?
*What is your understanding of proper health and nutrition?
*How do you support your own health and nutrition?
*What is you definition of wealth?
*How do you spend money?
*How do you save money?
*How do you think that your use of money will change after marriage?
*Do you have any debts now? If so, how are you making progress to eliminate them?
*Do you use credit cards?
*Do you support the idea of taking loans to buy a new home?
*What are you expecting from your spouse financially?
*What is your financial responsibility in the marriage?
*Do you support the idea of a working wife?
*If so, how do you think a dual-income family should manage funds?
*Do you currently use a budget to manage your finances?
*Who are the people to whom you are financially responsible?
*Do you support the idea of utilizing baby sitters and/or maids?
*Do you want to have children? If not, how come?
*To the best of your understanding, are you able to have children?
*Do you want to have children in the first two years of marriage? If not, when?
*Do you believe in abortion?
*Do you have children now?
*What is your relationship with your children now?
*What is your relationship with their other parent?
*What relationship do you expect your spouse to have with your children and their parent?
*What is the best method(s) of raising children?
*What is the best method(s) of disciplining children?
*How were you raised?
*How were you disciplined?
*Do you believe in spanking children? Under what circumstances?
*Do you believe in public school for your children?
*Do you believe in Islamic school for your children?
*Do you believe in home schooling for your children?
*What type of relationship should your children have with non-Muslim classmates/friends?
*Would you send your children to visit their extended family if they lived in another state or country?
*What type of relationship do you want your children to have with all their grandparents?
*If there are members of my family that are not Muslim, that are of different race or culture, what type of relationship do you want to have with them?