Long time no see and look, it's my favorite month again! ~ December oh la la la~
Today I am writing in a crappy mood, although I am being cheerful about it on the exterior.
I do that a lot.. I am cheerful cheerful person..
But this time, you can actually help me..
I added a complete stranger on FB after he 'friend-requested' me
That's not the worst part...yet
I gave it time and he's bearable..
I can't prove that he's lying to me in any way, except until yesterday..
yesterday he divulged some information that yes i might have asked about indirectly (but he did it and joking that i'd put him under pressure on the subject).
now, i didnt go immediately googling to see if it's true.
the next day i did though..
i didnt find info to support what he said
for half of that information, it's possible that i am not getting info becuz the subject is of no interest to wikipedia and the country the information lies in may not care a bit about this to make a wiki entry about it.
the other half, is without a doubt, a lie unless he has autocorrect on or he mistyped something or he is misinformed himself for some weird reason..
it's put a damper to my otherwise excellent Thursday..
lying is a deal-breaker for me, in friendship & everything else, but i can't yet prove that he is in fact lying..i am not god, but i do give people the benefit of the doubt..
and so far, god, via gut-filling, has helped me evade all the wrong people in my life
and avoid dates too :P
i am actually curious, not just for the possibility of this being something more (i wasn't looking for/awaiting it- that spot in my heart is woven with barbed wire), but because I have this detective spirit in myself (I once solved a case of a mystery tablet that was placed in our dorm-maybe i'll post about it).. i fear being unjust to him..
What could he possibly do to me in a cafe? (this is not rhetorical, you're welcome to open my mind to paranoia)
If things turn out weird, or still inexplicable, i could always say i didn't like him once i am back from the date right? (i don't have to say he is suspicious, he has other quirks that i can just over-exaggerate into a dealbreaker)
yes, i can play safe and just refuse to meet him and to get rid of him completely but that's what i have been doing my entire life.. maybe i should spice it a little (within reasonable limits)???
Now tell me....
If you were me, would you go on a date (in a totally public place, so safety is no concern), to check out if this dude is the real deal or not?
And what's('re) the deal-breaker(s) for your?